Glances are exchanged, we all giggle like little girls. Sunday school goes on, I have somewhere to be and I have to leave early. A tap on the shoulder, my friend glances back and smiles. We wave a silent goodbye. Who would have known it was goodbye for now? Five days later she was gone to be with the Lord.
This past year, it really hit me she was gone. She was alive when the transplant process started so when it ended, it really brought home she was gone.
Last week I was driving around listening to the radio with the kids. I heard a song that reminded me of her and her love for the Newsboys. It suddenly hit me that she is at the greatest concert ever and I am really happy for her.
My friends Sam and Stacy will understand this part. I always think of it like one big "Festival Con Dios" day for eternity. Whenever I think of her, I think of the beautiful day we all spent together worshipping the Lord and I can't wait until we all are together again.
It's been a privilege to be able to walk alongside her mom and sister in law during this time. What a privilege to pray for them and support them. So often, people forget and move on. Time heals for others but never for a family's heart. This is a little something from me to Val today to show her, I haven't forgotten, I won't forget and I am always here.
Often, this Superchick song makes me think of Tami's story and its a lesson for all of us. Love your family, love your friends, life is very short.
" We live, We love, We forgiving and never give up. For the days we are living are gifts from above, today we remember to live and to love." We Love- Superchick
What a gorgeous touching way to remember your friend. I love how God brings people into our lives that touch us so profoundly.
ReplyDeleteAnd I love that song.
That is so moving...
ReplyDeleteSomeone said, "We don't move on... we just get used to the pain..." Yup, maybe for family members, they never forget, and the pain only gets more unbearable as time goes on.
Excellent post... a gentle reminder for us to say "i love you" to those we hold most dear...